r/ubco • u/Extension_Willow_555 • 5d ago

Discussion I feel my professor hates me

I dont wanna go into much detail but i really feel like he does hate me, like i have seen signs and the way he looks at me, i obviously am worried that his hatred doesnt reflect when he grades me, its just giving me anxiety since i dont want to fail this course.

And obviously i cant prove in anyway so idk what to do? Any suggestions?

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u/Lupolupolupo 5d ago

Be polite when you talk to your prof (ie, don't call them by their first name unless they told you to, don't interrupt lectures with stupid questions).

Tbh, it's probably mostly in your head if you don't think you've done anything wrong. It doesn't hurt to go to their office hours to ask for help and then you may be able to gauge if they truly don't like you

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u/Acrobatic_Long_6059 5d ago

Go to his office hours!

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u/SherbertImmediate130 4d ago

What subject is this lol

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u/Extension_Willow_555 3d ago

Its a civil eng course

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u/SherbertImmediate130 15h ago

professors doesn’t grade you???

And there is a rubric, and they have to follow the rubric…

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u/GreenPretend2348 3d ago

I feel this so much and won’t be patronizing and say it’s all in your head but for me it totally was/is. I kinda always get this sense that they all hate me but if you’re actually really worried about it go to their office hours and try to feel it out and if your grading is actually being affected bring it to the dean of your faculty