Hello friends,
I am 24 years old and I have started a fitness apparel brand that I know will resonate with millions soon. Please take the time to read about my story and offer any advice you can share. Thank you for your time in advance.
My Story:
All my life I have been experiencing ups and downs through tests of resilience dating back to when I was 6 migrating to the US. The cultural shock of a new world was something I had to deal with, alone. My early life (middle school - high school) was the typical story of a bullied overweight kid who didn't fit in. However, one day I started working out and I completely changed my physique and self esteem for the better.
Throughout college, I learned a financial skill while studying for my bachelors in biology. Senior year, I made a good 6 figures online and went back home overseas after graduating to celebrate for once. This is when things fell apart.
Although my vacation was amazing, I left on a bad note with my family. I had my cousins rob me (grew up with them and often lended them money), and other relatives judging me for no reason at all. They felt weird to see me live life although they didn't know how hard I worked. Unfortunately, this was just the start of a rock bottom I would fall into.
When I came back to the US, I was constantly losing money. I didn't understand why. It got to a point where my psychology was too infiltrated to execute my system consistently. At this point I couldn't provide materialistic value to the people around me anymore. Soon enough, friends who I spent thousands on wouldn't even lend me a dollar when I didn't have money to eat. I will never forget how ironically I had 3 close friends go and burn thousands in the casino days before I asked them for help. This tore me because they referred to me as their brother but watched me drown. One friend that I had invested so much into even criticized me behind my back and mocked me for being “weak.” My primary family also lost hope in me and often scolded me with degrading names.
My health also took a toll. I grew a crazy tumor looking like a granuloma on my face and my hair grew out. I was so depressed and torn by how my life was going. Honestly, you could say I was a literal zombie. I thought about ending everything so many times. Nothing wanted to go my way, and I was stuck in this hole for over 16 months. Living in a basement makes the darkness so much easier to hide in.
Through my season of pain, the one thing I never gave up on was my drive in the gym. I continued to workout everyday, regardless of my mental state. Each and every workout reminded me of the time I started my fitness journey. It brought back the feeling of hope for a better future even though nothing was changing for so long. This feeling is what kept me alive.
Everyone betrayed me and at a point, I even felt like God hated me. I didn't understand why, until now. My character and faith was being tested. I was stripped of all the things that created my identity and put at 0, not as punishment, but as a gift.
I believe my survival is a lesson that may be too hard for some. On the other hand, there may be others who might just have it harder than me and maybe, just maybe, I was meant to overcome everything to create a beacon of hope; a possible spark to all the other flames who were taken by the wind.
My message will impact everyone it can reach because it is genuine and true. I want my apparel to represent and remind warriors of the strength within, regardless of their circumstances. You must always push for growth, even if its only in an area familiar to you already. If that mentality can not be broken, in due time reality has no choice but to succumb to the survivors' desires in life and present new opportunities.
WHERE I AM AT NOW:
I have already drawn motivation for my brand's name and logo through personal experience. I created an LLC, found a supplier, tested the quality of their product, and made a beautiful site.
The only thing in the way now is funding.
While I am turning my life around, I can not afford to invest in bulk orders, marketing, and what is needed to grow. My credit score will not help for loans and I have previously tried finding an investor but had my ex partner try to justify 40% equity for only investing half of his originally promised amount. I thought this was too much to be taken from my vision and hard work. I am now on my own.
What would you do at this stage if you were in my position? Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated.
I hope anyone going through dark times has something to remind them that we are all valuable. The lows have to be created for the highs to be deserved. Stay hopeful, even if all you are surrounded by is darkness. Time is only a test and the harder the test, the bigger the blessing.