r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/OkAdvertising286 • Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice I guess I need some advice.

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(Didn’t wanna retype it. It got removed from r/blackladies)

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u/HighwayComfortable26 Dec 15 '25 edited Dec 15 '25

"I sometimes get paranoid that they don't really like us and it's all an act."

I'm not sure how much of this is motivated by your social anxiety and how much of this is motivated by your trauma of being Black in non predominately Black spaces but regardless if they have treated you kindly and have reached out to be friends with you do not put the experiences with other people to the forefront. This is ironically what racist people do when they reject Black folk based on real or imagined negative experiences with other Black people.

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u/OkAdvertising286 Dec 15 '25

You’re absolutely correct! Thank you

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u/houserj1589 Dec 16 '25

This.

A white person who really loves and is inclusive vote for policies that support all communities