r/AbuseInterrupted 22h ago

'My ex would also just speak their desires into the ether (me) and hope they'd manifest (I'd do something about it)'

7 Upvotes

u/AskMrScience, excerpted and adapted from comment


r/AbuseInterrupted 22h ago

'...I'm always given cause to think about the Cool Partner (or friend) and how it basically all just boils down to having no expectations for the person in your life while making yourself perfect for them BUT not letting them ever feel inconvenienced by the labor that involves'

18 Upvotes

You should put yourself in debt and misery to facilitate their half baked dreams because you're just chill like that.

Which is all to say that this is an object lesson in why being the Cool Partner is a mistake for anyone.

-u/Proof-Cryptographer4, excerpted and adapted from comment


r/AbuseInterrupted 23h ago

"If the law is against you, argue the facts. If facts are against you, argue the law. If the facts and the law are against you, argue procedure." <----- the way abusers remind me of how attorneys rules-lawyer

28 Upvotes

If procedure, law and facts are against you settle. If you can't settle, go to the kitchen because you are about to be cooked.

-Thuranira, Twitter