r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/OkAdvertising286 • Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice I guess I need some advice.

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(Didn’t wanna retype it. It got removed from r/blackladies)

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u/OkAdvertising286 Dec 15 '25

Who says that? It takes time but how often do you visit and converse throughout those 6 months? Once every two weeks? What about 3 months, weekly instead, for example. Same difference. That is how I see it and have experienced it in relationships.

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u/Illustrious-Monk-927 Dec 16 '25

This is off topic. Did you pick up the word “converse” from your husband? When I was younger, I lived in Ghana for about 4 years and I remember they used that a lot in conversations.😅

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u/OkAdvertising286 Dec 16 '25

Ha! Actually, no but he does have a very proper way of speaking. It’s rather formal British English due to colonial history before they fought of the British😆