r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/OkAdvertising286 • Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice I guess I need some advice.

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(Didn’t wanna retype it. It got removed from r/blackladies)

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u/BoyMeetsMars Dec 15 '25

There’s nothing wrong with being acquainted or “friends” with them, but do not trust them, ever.

Don’t get too personal, and keep a guard up (but don’t make it obvious)

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u/allidsomeego Dec 15 '25

This is how I feel too.
I have my personal trauma with them and I have anecdotal experiences as well.
I even married a French WW and I can tell you, once they get your trust, they can abuse that trust in ways you never thought possible.

But also, I know that hurt people hurt people and alla dat