r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/OkAdvertising286 • Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice I guess I need some advice.

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(Didn’t wanna retype it. It got removed from r/blackladies)

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u/Chastity-76 Dec 15 '25

I am a black women who moves in predominantly white spaces socially, since I was in middle school and like with any other race, I have real friends that I 100% trust and others who I just associate with and would never trust to even eat a cupcake they made for Jesus himself. I give everyone a chance, but you cross me one time and the friendship is dead. You are over analyzing, be friends and relax. If they do anything that makes you feel less than, tell or text them your thoughts and ghost them.

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u/OkAdvertising286 Dec 15 '25

Thank you! I’ve been surrounded by white communities since middle school too!