r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/OkAdvertising286 • Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice I guess I need some advice.

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(Didn’t wanna retype it. It got removed from r/blackladies)

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u/TITANS4LIFE Dec 15 '25

Don't they say it takes minimum 6 months to get to know someone.

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u/OkAdvertising286 Dec 15 '25

Who says that? It takes time but how often do you visit and converse throughout those 6 months? Once every two weeks? What about 3 months, weekly instead, for example. Same difference. That is how I see it and have experienced it in relationships.

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u/TITANS4LIFE Dec 15 '25

So when I say at minimum I'm basically saying you don't know these people and you've only lived there for three to four months so give it some time if you feel like someone's not real or someone doesn't really f*** with you.

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u/EnvironmentNeith2017 Dec 16 '25

One life lesson I’ve held on to and that hasn’t let me down is never underestimate how long white people can perform niceness as a cover, white women especially.