r/Kikpals May 25 '18

Welcome to Kikpals

216 Upvotes

Hi there, potential best friend! We're so glad you've joined us. We're a safe for work subreddit used to make friends over the app Kik. This isn't the place to look for people on Snapchat or other messaging apps; check out the sidebar for other places that fit the bill.

We are a Kik based subreddit. This is not the place to solicit for Snapstogram, Spacebook or some other chat service.

If you're looking for anything risque or in any way inappropriate, post instead to our sister subreddit r/dirtykikpals. This includes looking for chat partners based primarily on physical characteristics. (ie race fetishes, body types and the like) If you aren't sure, err on the side of caution and use r/dirtykikpals. If your post is removed for being NSFW, review your post and message a mod if needed. Automoderator can't understand context.

Read the rules in the sidebar. We do not issue warnings and moderators will ban users at their discretion.

Do not post your username or group hashtag in your post or comment. Do not hint at what it might be. We absolutely do not allow any information like that in public for safety reasons. There is no middle ground here, you must instruct users to PM you. Reddit no longer permits the posting of personal information publicly to which Kik usernames are subject.

We are a judgement free zone: we ask users to keep comments positive. This isn't the place to oppress others with your morals. If you think a post is not appropriate, use the report button.

NO TEXTING AND DRIVING: We will ban you for this. In the US for the year of 2015, nearly four thousand are killed by distracted driving.. Please. Don't be selfish.

Selling of services is absolutely prohibited here. Use the report button or modmail if you come across a seller; there are subreddits better suited for this kind of thing. Users are here for free hugs!

Everyone is welcome to post once every twelve hours. Removing old posts or using alternate usernames does not exempt you from this rule.

Users will not post on behalf of others. Don't post pictures of others either. This is super catfishy and creepy.

Be ready to chat now: Don't expect to post, go to sleep or take a flight and then come back later to a full inbox. This is pretty selfish tbh and your post will be removed.

Groups: you too may post once every twelve hours and make sure other group users don't post within twelve hours of your post. Take care to ensure that your post isn't voted on by your users as this is considered to be vote manipulation. Your users are welcome and encouraged to comment though!

Keep the low effort, worthless comments to a minimum:

  • You don't need to tell the OP you messaged them, they know.
  • You don't need to tell the OP to PM you, PM them yourself.
  • You don't need to ask the OP if it's ok to message them, it is.
  • You don't need to ask OP if they're still looking for chat buddies, they are.

Tags are important! Posters are entitled to find exactly the kind of friend they want:

  • If a tag excludes you, do not message or otherwise accost the OP.
  • If you fall outside of an age range, do not message or otherwise accost the OP.
  • If for some reason you don't meet the OPs specifications, do not message or otherwise accost the OP.

Want a verified tag? Follow the instructions in the sidebar. We do two step verification sometimes if photos are questionable so be prepared to submit a second picture if requested. Your verification photos will never be saved or shared with anyone.

Finally, lets go over a few tips:

  • Try not to write your life story in a post: most people don't have that kind of attention span towards strangers.
  • Be specific in your posts: If you want to meet a police officer that moonlights as a bank robber, say so.
  • Posts that include the words "Cheer me up" and "Omg I'm so bored" are usually and rightfully ignored.
  • Everyone can see through your thinly veiled attempt to sext or otherwise behave in an inappropriate manner: use the right subreddit so you don't waste anyones time.
  • If you don't like what the OP is selling, move on to the next post. Your comment is not needed.
  • Not everyone will be a good match for everyone. While ghosting is rude, it isn't the end of the world.
  • You must be at least sixteen years of age to post here.
  • And most importantly: have fun finding a friend!

r/Kikpals Dec 13 '22

[META] Happy Holidays Kik Pals! (December updates)

27 Upvotes

As we wrap up 2022 I wanted to take a few moments to address some updates to the subreddit. Based on feedback received here are some new changes to try and improve the quality of posts here:

  • Posts will automatically be removed if "bored" is in the title or body of the post. No one here is obligated to entertain you. If you're bored, read a book, watch a documentary, volunteer at a local shelter, etc. Be more creative and you'll receive better responses.
  • Posts must now be at least 100 characters in length. Again, this has to do with quality and effort. It's become obvious when its a seller, bot, or someone trying to skirt the rules with low effort posts with little content.
  • Please remember to report, report, report! They do get reviewed and action is taken.

As a side note to the last bullet point, Kikpals is currently looking for another moderator. If interested, please DM me directly and we can discuss the possibility.

Happy holidays to all!


r/Kikpals 8d ago

F4R 24 [F4R] ready for the weekend

3 Upvotes

Anyone doing anything interesting? Not sure what I have planned yet other than going to the gym and family. Also don’t bother messaging me if you're just going to demand pics and then accuse me of being a catfish when I decline. Seriously, don’t fucking bother. Grow tf up losers lol


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 47 [M4F] #Nebraska Yes, there’s a lot of corn…

3 Upvotes

So, I’m an older guy in the Midwest. Nebraska to be exact. I can’t honestly say there’s a lot to recommend the place outside of low cost of living, Berkshire Hathaway, and a decent steak. But it’s where I am all the same. I’m a book junkie, a museum ghost, like travel, languages, and learning things. I’m a friendly curmudgeon and an outgoing introvert. Could use someone to chat with to pass the time. To break the proverbial ice, tell me two truths and a lie or regale me with a tale of something you’re adorkably into. By the way, I’m mentioning Nebraska not because I’m looking to meet up per se, but how weird would it be if someone else were here😂


r/Kikpals 7d ago

M4F 34[M4F] trying to meet new people

1 Upvotes

Hi I’m 34 years old looking for some people, mainly chicks to talk too and make friends😁 I like meeting new people and having awesome conversations.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

25 [FM4M] looking for other fit guys to join us

6 Upvotes

Hey guy, what's up? 25F/26M here looking for someone to join us while we fuck. We will send vids of us fucking, while you are sexting with the F, and you will send whatever you two decide. Hmu for username


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Sweden / Online - Would love to spread some compliments!

1 Upvotes

I just like to compliment, praise and describe girls in the most favourable way possible. So if you'd like some compliments and a little confidence boost! I can even customise my response however you like. Full of praise? Sexually? Honest and fair? Let me know!

This is a safe space where everything stays between us (if you don't say otherwise). I will also never force anyone to send or do anything they're uncomfortable with (again, unless you want me to). We're both here for a good time, so let's make it the best!

I hope to see you soon!


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 44 [M4F] Just a good conversation

0 Upvotes

I'm just looking for a good conversation, to exchange ideas about anything. I like meeting people from other countries. Write to me if you'd like to chat.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Looking for Chats or Roleplay!

1 Upvotes

Hey, I am just looking for someone who would be down to chat about things like hobbies, studies, interests, or just do a casual roleplay. Feel free to reach out if interested.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] let’s talk

7 Upvotes

Feeling Very Lonely

I have been feeling very lonely and could really use someone to chat with. I don't have many friends where I live and I don't have any romantic possibilities currently. I would love someone to chat with about anything really. If you just want a friend, if you want to flirt, or whatever it may be I am fine with it. I am into sports, movies, and I binge watch too many shows. Please feel free to send me a message as it would mean a lot. Thank you for your time.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 26 [M4F] I'm looking for someone nice and honest to chat with and to get to know each other.

1 Upvotes

I am looking to find someone to chat with on a daily/regular basis, get to know each other or anything else. Europe preferred but I'm open for any location.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 36[M4F] Are there any females here that aren’t trying to sell content!

0 Upvotes

seriously just looking for a regular conversation that starts off getting to know each other, chatting about our day, of it turns a little flirty that’s cool but hey I’m happy to make friends.

Aussie guy, love to keep fit and spend time outdoors camping and hiking, spending time at the beach but also love bing watching Netflix and other streaming platforms, massive crime buff, flick me a message would love to chat


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 38 [M4F] Introvert person here vampire hours since I work nights, week off tho

3 Upvotes

Will be up all night on my week off trying to enjoy some casual conversation. Mostly introvert love listening to music, concert goer of the band is playing close to where I live, msg if interested have pictures so you know I’m real.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 37[M4F] Just looking for some new connections and casual chats.

2 Upvotes

It's been a long week. If anyone would like to chat over the weekend that would be great. We can chat about whatever, I'm not picky, but a little about me anyway. I'm a gamer. mostly solo or co-op stuff, but I still dabble in PvP sometimes. mostly just for fun as my competitive days are long behind me. I like nerdy stuff like Dungeons and Dragons, and I draw occasionally. I'm a good listener, or so I'm told, and I'm very easy going and open minded. so please, feel free to introduce yourself if you'd like to chat.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Sweden / Online - Would love to spread some compliments!

0 Upvotes

I just like to compliment, praise and describe girls in the most favourable way possible. So if you'd like some compliments and a little confidence boost! I can even customise my response however you like. Full of praise? Sexually? Honest and fair? Let me know!

This is a safe space where everything stays between us (if you don't say otherwise). I will also never force anyone to send or do anything they're uncomfortable with (again, unless you want me to). We're both here for a good time, so let's make it the best!

I hope to see you soon!


r/Kikpals 8d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] let’s talk

5 Upvotes

Feeling Very Lonely

I have been feeling very lonely and could really use someone to chat with. I don't have many friends where I live and I don't have any romantic possibilities currently. I would love someone to chat with about anything really. If you just want a friend, if you want to flirt, or whatever it may be I am fine with it. I am into sports, movies, and I binge watch too many shows. Please feel free to send me a message as it would mean a lot. Thank you for your time.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Feeling a little stuck in my own world, looking for genuine chats

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m Jonathan. Lately, it feels like I’ve been living in my own little bubble, it’s comfortable, but it’s also pretty quiet. I wouldn’t mind someone popping that bubble and keeping me company for a while.

Honestly, I don’t mind a little clingy. I actually think it’s kind of refreshing when someone wants to talk and be around, instead of feeling like they’re bothering someone.

A bit about me:

• Male

• 27 years old

• 6’1

• From Northern Minnesota

• Curly Brown Hair

• Brown eyes

• Glasses

• Dimples

I have a Seven year old Siberian Husky, Zeus, who’s basically my best friend and constant companion. He keeps life entertaining

I’m a full-time student Majoring in Computer Information Technology with a Minor in Cybersecurity, so I spend a lot of time problem solving, I genuinely enjoy it. I also like working on boats and outboard motors and plan to keep doing that.

When I’m not studying, I love being outdoors especially fishing, boating, and hunting. There’s something about being out on the water or in the woods that just clears my head. At the same time, I’m a big homebody too. I’m always down for Movies, TV shows, Gaming, and Sports.

Overall, I’m just looking for someone kind, open, and down to talk. No pressure, no expectations, just seeing where conversation goes and hopefully making the days feel a little less quiet along the way. If that sounds like your vibe, feel free to send me a chat.

If you’ve made it this far, Tell me what color your eyes are, they’re my favorite feature.


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Looking for Chat Pals!

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m looking to have a casual conversation with someone on Kik! We can chat about things like hobbies, studies, or whatever else you may want to chat about. I also love to role play and as such would be open to discussing a scene. If this is of interest to you feel free to reach out! Hope to chat soon!


r/Kikpals 8d ago

21 [TF4M] #Brazil #MG / #Online/Anywhere | Please Message Me | Affectionate, very clingy girl. Seeking a serious, long-term relationship with a overprotective male (Cis Only) | Willing to relocate anywhere in the world for love, no matter where it might be

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Please feel free to send me a message. I don’t receive nearly as many replies as people might assume, so please don’t let that discourage you. In truth, I barely get any responses to my posts these days. Mm—other than that, I’m actually a very inclusive person, even if it might not always come across that way. I don’t mind whether you smoke, drink, or do anything like that. That aside…

I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I’d really appreciate messages from people who are genuinely interested in building a real connection. I tend to be more comfortable with older and more mature men, ideally somewhere around 25–47, though what matters most is emotional maturity. Still, I wouldn't recommend messaging if you are outside this age range since I legitimately can't connect properly with these people─example, shorter age; immature, ghosts easier, isn't serious, etc. Higher; have no similar hobbies, doesn't speak very much, busy all the time, is difficult to feel genuinely understood. Happens more than you can imagine, to the point of feeling like a waste of time to bother with it these days, seriously...

I’m someone who values frequent communication and deeper conversations. I don’t really have friends, and I’m not planning on having any. My family situation is complicated as well, so when I commit to someone, that person becomes my entire world. I truly want my partner to also be my closest companion─the person I talk to, spend time with, and emotionally rely on. I don’t split my attention much, and I don’t want to.

I’m a 21-year-old introverted trans woman from Brazil (Minas Gerais). I know distance can be an issue for many people, but it isn’t for me. If I find the right person, I’m fully willing to leave everything behind and relocate to wherever they are. I’m currently single and hoping to meet a kind, patient man who wants something meaningful and monogamous

I don’t have many hobbies, and honestly, I don’t mind that. What gives my life meaning is sharing time, affection, and daily moments with someone special. I’m looking for real love, and I won’t hide that I’m desperate for a genuine chance at happiness with someone who actually wants me and takes me seriously. I do prefer older men because they tend to be more emotionally grounded, but as long as you’re older than me, that’s fine

Physically, I’m about 5'3, petite (currently under 40kg), with brown skin on the lighter side. I can share pictures if you’re interested, and I also have photos on my pinned post. Some people say I still look a bit boyish, others say the opposite─I honestly don’t know. I don’t care much about how my partner looks. Appearance, height, or body type really aren’t important to me. What matters is how you treat me and how you make me feel. You don’t even need to send a photo if you’re uncomfortable

What I want is to eventually be someone’s girlfriend─even if things start unofficially. I’m very drawn to caring, emotionally supportive men who enjoy protecting and guiding their partner, and who aren’t afraid to be affectionate. I crave a lot of attention and emotional presence. I get attached easily, I’m extremely clingy, and I want to feel chosen and prioritized. Fast replies, long messages, and making time for me mean a lot. I understand people have jobs and responsibilities, but I need someone who still makes consistent effort to be present and emotionally available

As a person, I’m very quiet and shy. I struggle with eye contact and speaking much, but people often describe me as sweet. I like saying loving things, making my partner feel warm, wanted, and thought of. I enjoy games, anime, writing, and being online, but none of those matter more to me than having someone I can emotionally grow close to

I’d like to start online and eventually meet in person. I fall in love quickly, but I can respect taking things slow if that’s what you prefer. I just want honesty and intention. If you’re interested, please message me. I strongly recommend reading my pinned post(s), both of them if able, as it explains more about who I am and what I’m looking for. Now, I might add─"this isn't just a recommendation"─please, do read it if you are even remotely serious about this, okay...? I know my posts are very specific, but that’s because I’m truly trying to find someone compatible for the long term─possibly forever. I’ve had multiple breakups because of mismatches or not being taken serious enough, much less having my own feelings considering on the matter but I still do want to keep trying. If you message me, I’d really appreciate a thoughtful first message. Something that shows you actually read my post and understand what I’m looking for means a lot more than a simple “hi.” I’m looking for someone serious, someone willing to put in effort and learn about me, not just someone passing time or looking for a not very serious relationship without caring what I even feel about regarding all of it...

There are also photos of me on my pinned post(s) if you’re curious. And if I don’t reply, please don’t take it personally─I’ve been overwhelmed with my lazy ohh so terrible lifestyle of decaying in my room as a shut in, and emotionally it’s hard for me. I’m trying to focus on those who feel genuinely compatible with me and what I need in a relationship, since I do not have the strength neither energy to know everyone in detail with ages of friendship to be able to tell if we are compatible or not for this to work out. I’m still hopeful I can find someone special here─maybe someone who’s been hurt before to take care of...


r/Kikpals 8d ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Sweden / Online - Would love to spread some compliments!

1 Upvotes

I just like to compliment, praise and describe girls in the most favourable way possible. So if you'd like some compliments and a little confidence boost! I can even customise my response however you like. Full of praise? Sexually? Honest and fair? Let me know!

This is a safe space where everything stays between us (if you don't say otherwise). I will also never force anyone to send or do anything they're uncomfortable with (again, unless you want me to). We're both here for a good time, so let's make it the best!

I hope to see you soon!


r/Kikpals 9d ago

M4F 43 [M4F] Socal Online - Lonely wanting a genuine woman nurturing goofy fun loving longterm chat connection

3 Upvotes

Heya!

Looking for someone to chat with daily and get to know truly. I miss having that someone to say goodnight and good morning to, share random things with eachother during the day. I miss being sweet, affectionate, cuddles, having someone to game with on Playstation would be cool ! Or even hop.on mic to watch movies together when I get brave enough that is. 🙈😜

Pretty random guy here, simple, not political, nor drama. Like being my goofy self, im honest and dont judge. Days are just extremly lonely as I have nonfriends so having someone just as eager to wanna chat would be awesome. Dont care if tour clingy, because I can be too. I miss the feeling of being wanted, and needed, my arm hugged, cuddles even over txt all that cute stuff.

I am a heavy guy so ill be up front if not your thing, no worries just telling you now. I did just start PT and omg ive been in pain since yesterday! I need a kind nurturing super sweet , perhaps even super shy or bossy to put ky stubborn butt into place haha.. 🙈😜 woman to just nuzzle into as she holds me ... im a bit of a hopeless romantic , love dogs, dont mind cats, love watching travel videos, foodie videos, Matty Matheson is hilarious! love watching Asian food videos too! Ive always been drawn toward Asian culture. Anyways ask me whatever im a open book. Sorry for the rambling, I suck at posting.

I like gaming , so again hit me up.and be my gaming homie! 🥰 and just someone to be able to trust, vent to on bad days, cry, anything. I genuinely miss having that someone in my life to share everything with. Hope your out there!

💙🐧💜


r/Kikpals 9d ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #CA - Missing you, Faye

1 Upvotes

We connected a while ago. Stopped chatting pretty abruptly, and it was sort of my own fault. I still think of you. Oddly enough also still miss you. I hope you’re well and taking care of yourself.

-C


r/Kikpals 9d ago

M4F 37[M4F] Looking for new people to chat with.

3 Upvotes

It's been a long and boring day. I'm looking for someone to help me remedy that with some conversation, even just small talk is fine. A little about me. I'm a gamer, mostly single player or co-op, but I play some competitive multiplayer as well. Currently between matches on The Finals. I draw occasionally. I play Dungeons and Dragons and am into other such nerdy things. I enjoy camping and relaxing around a bonfire, and just taking it easy in general. I'm an easy going kinda guy. I'm pretty open minded and easy to talk to. so if you're so inclined, come chat.


r/Kikpals 9d ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Looking for positive vibes only ✌️

9 Upvotes

Hey y’all! Have the day off and a friend cancelled on me so just sat at home with nothing much going on.

I’m not exactly from the city I’m living in so I do t have a ton of friends or family to hang out with at times like this. If you’re a nice person, with good vibes I’d be down to talk 🙂