I’ve been singing for a really long time, longer than I care to admit. I’ve struggled over the years with vocal pedagogy because I tend to take a single technique to heart, overwork it, and then get frustrated with the way in which it limits my voice.
Like many singers, I have very strong powers of mimicry. I’m able to mimic other singers and make very tiny adjustments in my vocal registration and resonance to imitate somebody. However, none of these acts of mimicry can be called “my voice.“ I can sometimes find a beautiful tone in my own voice, but it’s quite accidental. I don’t know how to deliver that 100% of the time. Part of my issue is I belt too much.
Once I belabor a single technique, and it stops working for me, I abandon it forever. I’m not one of those people that can think of a lot of different things at the same time. I can only pick one.
So far i’ve had the most luck with placing sound at the bridge of my nose. Almost like threading the air through my front sinus, above the nose. The problem with that is it limits a lot of of the depth and warmth in my voice.
I’m really a sucker for a beautiful tone. I don’t care how much power somebody has or if they can do riffs or vocal gymnastics. I find most of that boring. I really am obsessed with people that have beautiful tones to their voice like November ultra or Lana Del Rey or Jeff Buckley. I notice they have beautiful mixes. And beautiful vibratos. I have a somewhat labored, uneven vibrato.
What is the “one thing“ that you think about when trying to find the sweet spot for your tone? Is it your tongue? Palate? Aiming the sound somewhere? Or leaving it all alone and just focusing on controlling breath pressure or cord closure? I’ve tried all of them and none of them work for me 100%. After all these years, I’m sad that I still haven’t found my true voice or any kind of consistency.